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Elections - The
Search for Daddy (as printed in
the Philadelphia Daily News, May 31, 2007)
OLIVIA NUTTER, the 12- year-old spitting image of her dad, won the
city's heart for his underdog mayoral candidacy.
Her vehicle: the TV ad showing her father
driving her to school. Saying goodbye to Olivia, Michael Nutter
tells his daughter to be good. Her response: the brightest of
smiles.
Olivia's message was clear: Her father could
be trusted. He took care of and protected her. And he'd do the same
for us.
Which brings us to the current crop of
presidential candidates. As with Michael Nutter, the candidate who
can project that he will be the most trustworthy father figure will
have a huge advantage in the race. (And, of course, this is Hillary
Clinton's biggest challenge.)
Our first president, George Washington, is
called the Father of Our Country. That's apt because there's a
craving among voters when they're looking for a chief executive for
a person who can project the idea that he's a strong father figure,
thereby inspiring trust and confidence.
And the image is a vote-getter - even if it
isn't real. It was brilliantly projected by Franklin Roosevelt,
whose strength and style seemed to come from central casting. In the
most troubled of times - depression and war - FDR lifted America
above our challenges to believe "We have nothing to fear but fear
itself."
And Roosevelt was able to succeed on this
level because he held office at a time when press coverage did
nothing to undercut his image of physical strength and family
harmony.
Americans had no idea that their president
couldn't walk, much less stand, without crutches. And not until
years after his death did the public learn that his mistress -
secretary Missy LeHand - lived right in the White House, and that he
died during a rendezvous with the love of his life, Lucy Rutherford.
And that brings us to the biggest challenges
for the men (and the woman) who would be president. One, for better
or worse, the press no longer turns a blind eye to a candidate's
personal life. And they have to project the strength Americans
traditionally require of their presidents.
Case in point: Bill and Hillary Clinton.
In his quest for the presidency, a strong
part of Bill Clinton's appeal was Hillary and their perceived joint
personal and professional successes.
Since many think the unelected position of
first lady is largely irrelevant, the description of a Clinton
presidency as "two for one" was an advantage. Many couples, looking
for a way to strengthen their own marriages to survive troubled
times, were thrilled to believe a prominent couple had put their
marital "pain" behind them.
This, of course, was not the case. Being
exposed to the sex life of the nation's No. 1 father figure quickly
went from titillating to sickening. But for Hillary, there was a
silver lining: Humiliation softened her image. Her popularity
soared, and with some hard work and a little luck, she was able to
achieve the enormous power she holds today. What was bad for the
father figure was good for his wife.
But now she has to try to be the father
figure herself. She can appear to be sensitive, but not vulnerable;
strong, but never strident; tough, yet feminine.
And she faces a problem the men don't: While
the potential first hubby works tirelessly to elect his wife, can he
also offer her fidelity? And if Hillary wins the nomination, will
her opposition be able to depict her as a highly masculine woman,
and frighten away mainstream support?
The father metaphor also helps explain
what's happened to the current occupant of the White House. More and
more, George W. Bush is seen not as a father but as a petulant and
destructive child.
And Hillary has a great deal of company in
the competition to replace him. Many find Obama to be an uplifting
contrast to both Bush and Clinton, a magnetic husband and father who
can use his talents to unite a divided and confused country.
There is also a clamoring for the fatherly
reason and discipline of Al Gore, the conservative steadfastness of
Mitch Romney, the charisma of Rudy Giuliani.
One thing is certain: Olivia's brilliant
"father of Philly" ad should be studied by the presidential
candidates. But Olivia is too much of an original to be cloned. She
is a natural. (I think her dad is, too.) And she's ours.
Yo, Olivia! And Yo! to your dad!
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