Easing the pain
I am deeply pleased that my tribute and thanks to a creative, devoted public servant, Lynne Abraham, was given life.
Greg Derr / AP
To the editor:
I have not stopped thinking about Lindsay Clancy, who acknowledged killing her children before she attempted to kill herself. I have not been involved in this case or reviewed any professional records. However, as a psychotherapist, I have worked with women who shared Clancy’s hellish pain and confusion. Women driven to kill themselves feel so worthless they believe all whom they love will have better lives without them. In my experience, when they also attempt to kill their children, they seek heaven where their little ones can finally be safe in their care. I longed for the opportunity to work with this population before such horrific acts could take place, and found it in a most unlikely way: through the Philadelphia District Attorney’s Office.
Early in our professional lives, I had the privilege of getting to know Lynne Abraham, and we became trusting friends. As a determined district attorney, she understood this city well and cared deeply for Philadelphians’ well-being, especially our children. During the years she was our DA, carefully selected cases involving first offenders, in which there were no fatalities, were referred to me for (pro bono) intensive therapy rather than incarceration. Abraham’s office also publicly supported the birth of the Sabbath of Domestic Peace Coalition, which identified clergy as an essential missing link in addressing domestic violence, stressing that prayer alone cannot change a violent partner, and that couples facing this distress should never be seen together for counseling.
There are times when I see former clients out and about with their families, enjoying their lives, possibly because Abraham understood the difference between a hardened criminal act and a cry for help.
SaraKay Smullens
Philadelphia
Published in The Philadelphia Inquirer, October 30, 2026