Film Review: The Roses — The Life or Death of a Marriage
I am very pleased that Linda Grobman assigned The Roses to me. It is not a film for everyone, but it does underline the importance of preserving love wherever it is found.
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by SaraKay Smullens, MSW, LCSW, DCSW, CGP, CFLE, BCD
Before I write a word about the 2025 exceedingly unsettling satirical comedy, The Roses, a remake of the 1989 film, War of the Roses, based on the 1981 novel of the same name, I must say how grateful I am that the marriage counselor consulted by the film’s protagonists is not portrayed as a social worker. You would have to go a long, long way to find a more poorly trained, clueless, and misdirected mental health professional. Whew!
Of course, the therapist, Janice (Belinda Bromilow) cannot help herself—her words are written for her. This reality established, since any specific discussion about the plot of this film will lead to spoilers, I offer this for your concentration: Think about two highly successful, kind, talented people you care deeply for who marry, and have children—and then a domino of life upheavals hits hard, throwing their established societal roles and finances in complete disarray. Their story is then presented to viewers in the most exaggerated satire.
This analogy established, back to the one and only marriage counseling session of Theo (Benedict Cumberbatch), an out of the box, uncompromising architect, and his wife Ivy Rose (Olivia Colman), a talented aspiring chef. Ivy and Theo are two Brits who fall madly, devotedly, supportively in love, marry, have twin children, Hattie (Hala Finley, Delaney Quinn as young Hattie ) and Roy (Wells Rappaport, Ollie Robinson as young Roy), and 10 years later leave their London home to settle in artistic, compelling Mendocino, California—pricey, but not to be confused with the more exclusive Montecito, where Prince Harry and his wife Meghan moved, joining Oprah Winfrey, Jennifer Aniston, Tom Cruise, Gwyneth Paltrow, and other media royalty.